Monday, September 05, 2005

This was suppose to be up ages ago..

It’s 3.30am and I’m about to go to sleep. Just came back after having a long lengthy chat with J & JE. It’s been such a long time since we just went out to have some time to ourselves. This day was a day I was desperately looking forward to, the end of the first half of Semester 4; although Renal assessment didn’t go so well today. If only I read more…
Anyway, speaking to J & JE about their ‘man’ was exciting. After such a long time, JE finally likes someone…ha ha.and as for J, it’s a wonder whether her heart is going to be broken again; but I do think it’s going to make her a stronger person. I do believe that her Mr. Right will come soon, very, very soon. Like I said to her, maybe when we are no longer seniors in Seremban.
Love is such a sweet thing. But it could also have its bitter aftertaste. Or more likely, sometimes, it’s bitter all the way. Why do people fall in love? Is it truly love? How can they say that they have fallen in love when they have only seen the person once? Does ‘love at first sight’ really exist? If it does, will it ever work, or more importantly, last?
When you love someone, you know that that person is all you ever want, ever need. He/she will be the one who will blow your fears away, lift you off your feet and make you feel significant. But does it in truth happen?
You try immensely to make the person reciprocate your actions and feelings towards him, only to realize that he does not; but yet you wait in hope ‘maybe there is still a chance’. This was what I was talking to J about. I told her to just be brave and tell SSKB that she loves him, for she really does, but is she brave enough? Is he mature enough? Whatever it will be, I told J that she could be sure of a definite answer no matter what it may be. She can then move on.
I spent many hours every year with people with love dilemmas. I have had twins vying for the same girl, best friends breaking up because of a guy, couples where the guy is just all about sex and to list every thing down will need volumes of books. It’s quite interesting, what makes this people continue o fall in love…is love really all that strong?
What’s going to happen to J remains an enigma, at least for now. I’ll just hope for the best.
Here are some tips for new-age girls:
1) If you like a guy, get close enough to him to ensure that he is really what you think he is. If you are just plain desperate, forget tip (1)
2) When you think he is the one, make a move, seriously, why not? All the more if he’s the shy type. But if you think he’s going to do the confession, wait.
3) Don’t be so pushy. And don’t let him be that way too. Because when he is, you know what he really wants (and that’s not good, unless that is what YOU want!).
4) Check his history out a bit. If he had just finish running after 3 girls in a row within 3 months (and failed miserably) and now is trying to hit on you, take note. You don’t want to be just-another-girl.
5) Forgive his excuses. Sometimes men just need the time to think. But if the excuses go to far, well girl, $%@* him.

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